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Family harmony is an important, if not the main component of a strong family union. An interesting fact: when there is harmony in the family, no one will tell you for sure why it exists. But when there is no harmony, anyone can easily name two dozen reasons that hinder its achievement. Mainly, these reasons will be related to how the partner behaves - husband or wife. The overwhelming majority of those who do not find happiness in marriage really believe that with a different, more suitable partner, they themselves will be different, and the family life itself will be different, happy. But the secret is that you don't have to be the perfect person or spouse to achieve harmony in the family.
In all families, there are conflicts, misunderstandings, quarrels and disagreements. But happy and unhappy families experience these conflicts in different ways. The same vision and understanding of values, loyalty to each other, the ability to trust each other, the desire to support each other - these are the important factors that distinguish happy marriages from unsuccessful ones. Feel the difference: be loyal to your partner, even if you disagree with him on some issue, or be in opposition to him. It's easier to be in opposition, loyalty in this situation requires effort, awareness in relationships. And here lies the main rule of harmonious relationships: relationships are constant work.
Of course, working in a relationship is a challenge for both partners. One person, no matter how good he is, is not able to carry the burden of relationships on his shoulders, and he should not do it. Of course, it is not in our power to “educate” our husband or wife, trying to make them comfortable, “correct” partners. All we can do is reconsider our own attitude towards marriage, try to find and correct our mistakes, and work on our attitude towards our partner. Only by changing ourselves can we cause reciprocal changes on the part of the partner. And often this is the only way to achieve harmony in the family.
There is an exceptional relationship between feelings and actions. When we are in love, our actions in relation to a partner are dictated by our feelings. Then, when the passion begins to leave, it is actions that can become that magical source that will nourish your relationship, filling them with love and affection. It's a proven fact: act as if you really love and respect your partner (just do it sincerely), and then you will really love him. Decide for yourself that you don't just want to live with this person, but live happily. Be gentle and don't try to prick your partner. Even if he made a mistake or mistake, help him save face, be on his side. Consider the words that you want to say, sometimes it is better to really remain silent than to provoke a conflict.
Be bold when it matters. Do not be afraid to be the first to go to reconciliation, do not expect to be repulsed or humiliated. Remember what you have in common, your family, and what they have in common is worthy of being brave.
Strive to have more in common among all family members. In this sense, family traditions, activities that are interesting to everyone, rules that are common for everyone, etc. work perfectly. The more in common, the stronger the foundation of relations.
Don't expect your partner to learn to read your mind or guess what you want. Do you want to go to the movies with your husband? Tell me bluntly, do not wait until he, like a real man, invites you.
Don't try to be comfortable in the relationship, it ruins everything. You don’t have to live in a relationship that’s uncomfortable for you - but not to live in such a relationship, you will have to learn to talk to your partner, discussing all the important issues. It's hard to say how many families could be saved from divorce if people just knew how to talk to each other.
The Greeks defined harmony as "the agreement of the disagreeing." To achieve harmony in the family, one does not have to strive to merge with each other, to be one whole. Remain yourself, have your voice, but match it with your partner's. And this is impossible without mutual respect, mutual acceptance of each other. It is in this that one should look for the sources of harmony in the family.
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