VII. Speakers

Girl: Mom, I’d like to talk to you about the party tomorrow.

Mom: I think we’ve already discussed that and answer is “No”.

Girl: …

Mom: What makes you think that you deserve to go?

Girl: …

Mom: Well, that’s all very nice, but I’ve already told you that you that can’t go this week. If you behave yourself, I’ll let you go next time.

Girl: …

Mom: Well, I ready don’t know. Go and ask your father then.

Girl: …

Mom: … You’ll understand when you’re older.

1.         Compromise

2.     Attitude

3.     Behaviour  

4.     Claim

5.     Chores

6.     Problem

7.     Dialog

8.     Advice

Цели урока:

1. Активизация и систематизация полученных знаний  лексики по теме Do your parents understand you?

 Задачи урока:

Образовательная – контроль и самоконтроль уровня обученности учащихся по данному разделу

Развивающая - развивать способности к анализу, классификации и систематизации, догадке, способность осуществлять репродуктивные  речевые действия, развивать воображения;

Воспитательная - развитие взаимопомощи и поддержки в работе группами;

Коммуникативная - формировать лексические навыки чтения и говорения, развивать умения читать и аудировать с целью извлечения конкретной информации.

Ход урока:

I. Подготовка учащихся к иноязычной речевой деятельности

1.Оргмомент (2мин.)

Задача: проведение беседы с дежурным.

T: - Good morning, boys and girls! It’s time to begin our lesson.

Who is on duty today?

P1.: - I am.

T.: - What date is it today?

P1.: - Today is the … of ….

T.: - Who is absent?

P1.: - ….. are absent.

T.: - Thank you.

2. Речевая зарядка (3 мин.)

Задача: подготовить речь учащихся к уроку.

T: - Is everything ready for the lesson? Let’s begin. I want to ask you some questions.

1.     Do your parents often lecture you?

2.     Do your parents often call you ungrateful?

3.     Do you often reach compromise with your parents?

4.     Are your parents often angry with you?

5.     Do you fulfill your chores well?

6.     Are your parents often satisfied with you?

T: - What themes will our lesson? What do you think about it?

P.P. - …

 T: - The conversation will be about our parents, if they understand you all right, and if they can understand you. We’ll also speak about what can we do to get understanding with you. So let’s start.

II. Волшебный лабиринт «твои родители понимают тебя?» (30 мин.)

Задача: научить высказываться по теме, обсуждать прочитанное и услышанное

T: - We begin our game “Mystery Labyrinth”. This competition has eight laps and you will get key for each lap. Whose team will have more keys will be winner.

(учащиеся выполняют задания каждого этапа и та команда, которая выполнят быстрее и правильнее получает ключи)

III. Заключительный этап (5 мин.)

1. Подведение итогов урока

Задача: показать уровень достижения цели.

T.: What can you say now about understanding with your parents, what can you add?

(учащиеся говорят все, о чем узнали на уроке)

T: - Now I want to give you these advises HOW TO HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS from English site. I hope they help you.

 2. Домашнее задание

Задача: сообщить и объяснить домашнее задание.

T.: - Your home task: p. 22-24 Work Book. You should do exercises for 10 Lesson.

 3. Сообщение оценок

Задача: сообщить и аргументировать оценки.

Т.: - Your marks: P1, 5, 7 got excellent marks, because they gave full answers. P.2, 3, 4, 6 got a good marks, because there were some mistakes in their answers.

Т.: - Thank you very much! The lesson is over. Good-bye.

Do your parents understand you

(train list)

A female age 16-17, *AYL0Rshawtyy. Writes:

I'm always crying at home and it's because my parents always say something to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I love talking to my friends on the computer, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents complain that I stay in my room too much and I never come out to talk to anyone.

But the reason is because every time I step out of my bedroom door and say something. It leads to something else and I end up crying. Like today. [It’s Sunday and THEY couldn't go to church.] My mom says ' what did he preach about today?' And I really didn't know because my preacher preaches for like 20 minutes, and my little sister was bothering me the WHOLE time so I say 'I don't know. She was bothering me the whole time.' Then my dad says 'you never listen to him, you just go just to go. I swear you never listen'. That’s when I'm almost to tears because I could swear they hate me.

They start an argument with everything I say so they keep talking [forgot what they said to me] but I eventually start crying and then my mom says 'and just cause you're standing there crying doesn't mean anyone is going to feel sorry for you.' they DON'T understand. They DON'T know how it feels when every time you talk to someone you really love; you end up crying and getting hurt from something they said and just not feeling good enough. Can someone please help me with this?

A female age 16-17, *AYL0Rshawtyy. Writes:

I'm always crying at home and it's because my parents always say something to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I love talking to my friends on the computer, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents complain that I stay in my room too much and I never come out to talk to anyone. But the reason is because every time I step out of my bedroom door and say something.. It leads to something else and I end up crying. Like today. [It’s Sunday and THEY couldn't go to church.] My mom says ' what did he preach about today?' And I really didn't know because my preacher preaches for like 20 minutes, and my little sister was bothering me the WHOLE time so I say 'I don't know. She was bothering me the whole time.' Then my dad says 'you never listen to him, you just go just to go. I swear you never listen'. That’s when I'm almost to tears because I could swear they hate me. They start an argument with everything I say so they keep talking [forgot what they said to me] but I eventually start crying and then my mom says 'and just cause you're standing there crying doesn't mean anyone is going to feel sorry for you.' they DON'T understand. They DON'T know how it feels when every time you talk to someone you really love; you end up crying and getting hurt from something they said and just not feeling good enough. Can someone please help me with this?

A female age 16-17, *AYL0Rshawtyy. Writes:

    I'm ____________crying at home and it's because my parents always say something ___________me feel like I'm not ___________. I love talking to my friends on the___________, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents ___________that I stay in my room too much and I never ____________to talk to anyone.

      But the _____________is because every time I step out of my bedroom door and say something. It leads to something else and I end up ____________. Like today [It’s Sunday and THEY couldn't go to church.] My mom says ' what did he ____________about today?' And I really didn't know because my preacher preaches for like 20 minutes, and my little sister was ____________ me the WHOLE time so I say 'I don't know. She was bothering me the whole time.' Then my dad says ‘you never ____________ to him, you just go just to go. I ___________ you never listen'. That’s when I'm almost ____________ because I could swear they hate me.

      They start _____________ with everything I say so they ____________ [forgot what they said to me] but I ____________ start crying and then my mom says 'and just cause you're standing there crying doesn't ____________anyone is going to feel sorry for you.' they DON'T_______________. They DON'T ___________ how it feels when every time you talk to someone you really _________; you end up crying and getting __________ from something they said and just not feeling good enough. Can someone please _________ me with this?

know

 to make

 love

 hurt

 complain

 come out

 reason

 an argument   

 preach

 bothering

 help                                                             

 swear

 crying

 keep talking

 to tears

 eventually

 mean

 understand

 always

 good enough  

 computer

 listen

HOW TO HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS

1. RESPECT EACH OTHER

Without mutual respect, any relationship will be an unhappy one. People who respect each other: a) value each other's opinions, b) listen to each other, c) disagree without screaming or insults. And remember, your parents have lived longer than you - don't discount their experience and knowledge.

2. COMMUNICATE: Your parents want to know what's going on in your life. If you keep them in the dark they won't know when you need their help or whether they can trust you. Tell them what you're up to, share your thoughts and feelings with them, and seek their advice for your problems (you don't have to take it). Communication builds closeness.

3. BUILD TRUST: Trust is your key to freedom. The way to build trust is through honesty and responsibility. Honesty means you don't lie or manipulate. Responsibility means you are reliable and can be counted on to use good judgment. When your parents trust you, it's a lot easier for them to say "yes."

These guidelines work both ways. If, on occasions, your parents violate any of these guidelines, talk to them about it. Pick a time when you are both calm and feeling good toward each other (never when you're angry). Then, explain to them what they did, how it makes you feel, and what you'd like them to do instead.

Unfortunately, these guidelines don't always work. Since we can only control what we do, and not what our parents do, sometimes we are truly helpless to transform a bad relationship. If this is the case, try to use these guidelines to at least improve things a little, and talk with a trusted adult who may be able to help you.