Рабочие листы
к вашим урокам
Скачать
1 слайд
Cool off
Count to 10
Take a deep breath
Imaging a relaxing place
Then, say what’s really bothering them.
Watch how you express yourself.
Don’t blame or accuse.
Don’t say «You are always bossing me around», but «I feel frustrated because you don’t pay attention to what I think»
Listen carefully to the person and accept that he or she might see the problem in a different way.
Be flexible and open-minded, willing to apologise, forgive and move on.
1. What is conflict?
Conflict is part of everyone’s life.
2. Where can conflict show up?
Conflict can show up at school, at work and at home.
3. How do people usually feel about conflict?
4. How do people deal with these natural feelings?
People feel angry, frustrated, annoyed, disappointed or sad.
Some people scream, shout, swear, call people names, try to get back at or even hit the person who has hurt them.
5. What do people usually do before discussing a problem in a conflict situation?
Before people start discussing the problem they…
6. What advises can you give to resolve a conflict?
2 слайд
Explain the words/phrases in bold.
show up ― appear
frustrated ― feeling upset or angry because you are unable to do anything about a problem
annoyed ― fairly angry about something disappointed ― feeling sad because something has not happened/because something is not as good as you hoped
resolving ― solving
process ― series of actions carried out in order to achieve a particular result
blame ― say somebody is responsible for something, even if they may not be
accuse ― tell somebody you think they did something
boss me around ― bully me
flexible ― adaptable
3 слайд
Change the following «you» statements into «I feel» statements.
Use the adjectives bad, upset, disappointed, annoyed, sad.
You never want to hang out with me any more!
You are late again! You are so unreliable!
You are always telling lies!
You never listen to me!
I feel bad because we don’t hang out any more.
I am disappointed that you are late again. I don’t feel I can rely on you.
3. I don’t feel I can believe what you say anymore, as there have been so many lies.
4. I wish you would listen to me for once!
4 слайд
Your friend gets angry very easily. Give some advises how to control his/her anger and resolve a conflict.
You cannot resolve conflict when you are feeling angry.
You must take a deep breath and calm down.
Only then will you be able to discuss the problem.
It may help to count to 10 or imagine that you are in a relaxing place ― do something to make yourself feel better.
When you speak, try not to blame or accuse the other person. Also, try to use ‘I’ statements.
Рабочие листы
к вашим урокам
Скачать
6 665 090 материалов в базе
Настоящий материал опубликован пользователем Ниденс Надежда Николаевна. Инфоурок является информационным посредником и предоставляет пользователям возможность размещать на сайте методические материалы. Всю ответственность за опубликованные материалы, содержащиеся в них сведения, а также за соблюдение авторских прав несут пользователи, загрузившие материал на сайт
Если Вы считаете, что материал нарушает авторские права либо по каким-то другим причинам должен быть удален с сайта, Вы можете оставить жалобу на материал.
Удалить материалВаша скидка на курсы
40%Курс профессиональной переподготовки
300/600 ч.
Курс профессиональной переподготовки
300/600 ч.
Курс повышения квалификации
72 ч. — 180 ч.
Мини-курс
4 ч.
Оставьте свой комментарий
Авторизуйтесь, чтобы задавать вопросы.